What love is not is more important than what it is the young lover dreams about moonlight and the first kiss he reads too many romantic books and is hooked to love like a drug-- but love is not always sweet wine worse than hemlock when it enters the blood-system and no medicine can cure--the poets say (do they know?)-love is divine too much given to poetic licence with little substance when viewed in real life love is suffering, rejection, loneliness, in-fighting, day-dreaming a litany of hurt feelings, threats, murderous accusations--an endless strife if in my youth someone had told me so I wouldn't have found myself in that self-inflicted hell and would have avoided so many a sorrow
* inspired by a poem of Sarah Oh--WHAT LOVE IS--a fellow-writer