While I've read many times before that;
it's a bad habit to fall in love with somebody who doesn't love you.
To hold on to locked doors..etc...
It is also a terrible & tedious exercise to search outside for answers that are found within.
As if wanting some sense of comfort
-( a certainty). I mean if he/she shares similar sentiments then
it must be 'okay' it is then Possible...
We feed off confidence from others,never really trusting ourselves enough to define us.
Ask yourself,
How's it my purpose if you have to confirm it for me?
Look within & doubt your doubts, after all you're the only you that knows you.