Things are difficult when you lost people that you care about But how can you see joy within your heart , how can you. Truly the only way to see these Joyful days is to give them to you. There is no other way to see joy then to give these pains to you. For only you can transform us and only you can heal our pains. How can you live a life without pain, you cant unless you give it to God. For yes life is to short to live your whole life in your sorrow and shame. Sometimes we do suffer and yes it shall draw others to him our King. But at a point we need to lay them down at the cross, for Christ to take.