i work my fingers to the bone , but my wife won't leave me alone she is always looking for a fight, sometimes i think she just ain't right. i'm sure she loves me in some way, but i'm finding it so hard to stay women say they wish they had a man with qualities like me but this is something she just doesn't see. she's been a housewife more years than i care to count i thought this was what marriage was all about. she has most things that women dream of , even has her spouse's love. but she nitty picks me to death and doesn't even take time to catch her breath. i make a list of things to do, and she won't stop criticizing until i'm through. is it that she is so insecure- that with me she's not sure ? why does negativity control her life - a little change would be nice. i guess i'll have to accept this life- because i took the vows when she became my wife. (C) L .RAMS 050115