If a child's birth elevate many toward joy.
Then a funeral should do the same in various ways.

Except, you notice attitudes and personalities changing.

All those with built up emotions begins to emerge hatred.
Attacking one or two, they feel wasn't sincere enough.
Didn't care enough.
Didn't love according to them enough.

Oh, many of us has witnessed things at a funeral.

Who will ride in the limousine?
Who paid for the burial?
The funeral derails many people respect.

Where you witness things you never expected?

Fights, arguments and pure disagreements.
Then when time comes to speak over the dead.
You might find a few not being totally rude.