I have a tag on tumblr specifically called 'parenting' so that if and when the time comes I remember what I needed when I was younger and I can be that person for my child. I write love letters to my future spouse sometimes in pen and sometimes on the typewriter so that if and when the time comes they know how long I've waited for them, they know that they're a dream come true and how amazing it is that I can wake up to see them next to me.