I now realize the best way to express my love for someone is to release them into the wild free to become what they wish encouraging them along their path as a sister or a brother how absurd to think I used to want to control everything driven by envy or fear always blocking the light from reaching my eyes denying my true self in a perpetual tailspin with shovel in hand digging holes for no reason reluctant to grow wings of my own I now realize the best way to express my love for someone is to forgive them even if they meant me harm learning to love without conditions is the sweetest release of all