it's when you think you're over someone when you actually aren't and you fool yourself thinking that you have moved on so you latch on to the next guy who calls you pretty compliments you and shows you the kindness you've always craved but again, you're just fooling yourself thinking you have a chance with the new guy when the truth is, the reason why you've been alone all this time is because you're not worth the fight. so you feel petty and horrible and cry yourself to sleep then when you wake up you try to move on again. and the cycle repeats