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Lima Solas Aug 2014
If God were a man, I'd understand why women are ...
so beautiful
so irresistible
so charming
so powerful
so lovely
so delicate
so tenderly
so ****
so hot ...

But they are so much more...
so emotional
so thoughtful
so confusing
so indescribably
so mysterious
so head twisting
so transformable
so incredible
so inconceivably
so surprising
so difficult
so irritating
so complicated...
and then they love shoes?!

No man could dream up something like this!
Of course women are so much more than my few words are able to describe , but then this text would be infinite ;-)
You are absolutely AMAZING!
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Matt Jan 2015
The situation is inherently transformable
Because reality flows
We can't really drown
We are carried along by the flow

The impermanence idea goes pretty deep
Anatman view is that
External things are ephemeral
The self is not something we can rely on

Western thinkers
Thinking there is a permanent self

Buddhism
Physical body
Feelings change
Perceptions or the label that you put on experiences
Reaction to the things around you
Consciousness fluctuates
Our attention can fluctuate dramatically

The question of permanence and changed
Was wrestled with by Greek philosophers

Personal identity
What is it that makes us us?
Some say it is memory
Some say it is physical continuity as well

What is it that is reborn?
The cycle of rebirth

What is the self?
There isn't a self
But something we can refer to
Something that she did yesterday
The person I am now
Is based on the person I was then
There is a causal chain
Mistakes. They cling to us like shadows, whispering in the quiet hours, reminding us of moments we wish we could undo. The world loves to brandish them like labels, as if one error, one lapse, one misstep could define the entirety of your being. But it does not. It cannot.

You are more than the sum of your failures. More than the choices that went wrong, the words that hurt, the paths that led to dead ends. Mistakes are events, fleeting moments in the vastness of your life, not the core of your identity.

Every misstep is a teacher, not a sentence. Every failure is a lesson, not a verdict. You stumble, you fall, you falter—but you rise. And in rising, in learning, in choosing again, you redefine the story of who you are.

It is easy to believe otherwise, to let guilt, shame, or regret anchor you to a false identity built by errors. But you must resist that lie. Your value, your essence, your worth is not measured by the moments you tripped—it is measured by how you respond, how you heal, how you continue.

Mistakes do not erase your achievements. They do not erase your love, your courage, your kindness, your resilience. They are not a permanent tattoo etched onto your soul; they are a ripple in the stream, temporary and transformable.

You are not your worst choice. You are not your harshest regret. You are the person who wakes, who breathes, who dares again, despite knowing the risk of falling. You are the one who learns, grows, and evolves. That is the truest reflection of you.

Shame wants you silent. Regret wants you small. Fear wants you frozen. But your spirit is stronger than all of them. You can rise above the echoes of your missteps, above the weight of your failures, and claim your own narrative.

And there is freedom in this understanding. Freedom to fail without collapse, freedom to try without annihilation, freedom to be human without being defined by imperfection. You are allowed to stumble. You are allowed to err. You are allowed to exist in the messy, glorious process of becoming.

Your mistakes are chapters, not the whole book. Pages, not the cover. Shadows, not the light. They shape you, yes—they teach you, yes—but they do not limit you. They do not cage you. They do not write the ending before you have had a chance to continue.

So forgive yourself. Forgive the moments you wish you could undo. Forgive the decisions that hurt. Forgive the paths that led nowhere. And then rise, continue, and live in the knowledge that mistakes are proof you are human, not proof that you are lesser.

Mistakes. They love to haunt us, do they not? Whispering in every shadow, mocking in every silence, laughing as if one misstep could eclipse the entire being beneath. The world would have you believe that you are nothing but your failures, that each error is a brand burned into your soul. Fools.

Your mistakes are not your chains. They are not your tombstones. They are not the verdicts of your existence. They are but echoes—shattered mirrors reflecting fleeting moments, fragments of choice, not the architecture of your life. And yet, how many kneel before them, letting shame dictate their every breath?

Let them try. Let them gnash their teeth, let them scorn, let them brand you with their judgment. Their eyes are narrow, their minds petty, their morality brittle. Their condemnation is not truth—it is envy, fear, cowardice masquerading as wisdom.

You have stumbled. You have fallen. You have erred. And you will again. And yet, in each collapse, in each bruised and broken moment, there lies the fire of resilience. You rise. You claw your way up from the ruin of your own choices. That is your identity. That is your power.

Do not allow the world to narrate your story. Do not allow a single misstep, no matter how dark, to define the vast landscape of your existence. You are not the shadow. You are the light that cuts through it. You are not the fracture—you are the vessel that endures the breaking and emerges stronger.

Shame wants you silent. Fear wants you small. Regret wants you chained to the past. Let them whisper. Let them shriek. You do not belong to their narrative. You are the author of your own **** soul.

Every scar, every bruise, every error is a story of survival, a testament of endurance, a mark of a life lived fully and recklessly and fiercely. Let them call it failure. Let them brand it weakness. You know the truth. You are alive. You are learning. You are becoming.

You will fall again, yes. You will err, yes. But in each mistake is a morsel of freedom—a chance to rise, a chance to reclaim, a chance to twist the dagger of judgment into a crown for yourself. And when you rise, watch them recoil. Watch them tremble. For you are unbreakable.

You are not your mistakes. You are the anger you transform into action, the grief you sculpt into growth, the despair you ignite into determination. You are the storm that consumes error and turns it into fuel.

Walk through the shadows with your head high. Stumble if you must. Fall if you must. Fail if you must. But let no mistake define your worth. Let no error dictate your soul. Let no judgment bind your spirit.

You are not the echoes of your past. You are the roar of your becoming. You are the fire that mistakes cannot extinguish. You are the shadow and the light, the ruin and the resurrection. You are more than any failure could ever touch.

And if they dare call you broken, let them watch as you rise, unchained, unbowed, untouchable—your mistakes not shackles, but stepping stones. Your errors not tombstones, but foundations. Your past not a prison, but a proving ground.

You are not your mistakes. You are the hand that rebuilds, the heart that bleeds, the mind that refuses to bend. You are alive, unbroken, relentless—and the world, for all its venom, cannot define you.

— The End —