Only when I am done giving,I can ask you for something in return.. But my love is a constant giving process..and it gives me no room for asking u back... The more I exude,the more I generate... love is something that I generate and I am generating it constantly leaving me no space and time to think of whether u r giving back to me... Shiva has given me this that is not exploitative by nature...and I am in eternal debt to him.