How to How to How to But we never ask why to Who to And Where to. So we learn our how's and forget our why, who, and where. Then as we continue to learn this how and that how we start to realize where our where's went. Who is who? Until we're sitting here pleading to know why we've lost our whys. Then the single most important thing that is above our how, why, who, and where's. What. And that is the meaning of life.