You ever have someone you care for try to be there for I do and I know that she's a good person, not my girl friend but Someone that I'm close to but she's on a self destructive path and I'm trying but nothing seems to get thru to her I hate her boyfriend fir what he decided to do to her i tried to play surgeon to suture her wounds and be a good friend because I'm dutiful but all I asked is that she meet me halfway and I'll go in the rest but **** it she won't help herself and rest and unless she changes I'll lose one of my best friends I'd hate myself if I didn't try and her life ends