I've learned things like a flame is coldest at its tip right in the middle is where you get lit the quickest
and someone who admires the curves of your feet is certainly someone who was worth meeting
also when you act like you don't care the world acts accordingly, loses meaning, refusing so much as a glance at your stare
mostly if you don't wish to be stuck with a name you've created for yourself there are means of depleting it if you remember the lessons of placement appreciation and passion