I never like to pretend that I know better but in this case, I think I do: one poem, written by Born titled "love" went like this: I know I matter most
In theory, this particular idealism should prove true, but in practice, you just feel like **** anyways. I find that the best way to go about this particular train of thought is to hang a left at humility and consider your options from her side of view.
in taking my own advice, I apologize for this poem