dear Married couple with children of any age, dear divorced /couple/ with children of any age,
I want you to know that it's not that weird for your child to love someone from a distance.
from a distance so far that your child and their love may never meet.
I want you to know that even though you think it's childish, and fake
love comes in many unpredictable ways.
your child suffers because that person is so far from them that they can only dream about them.
your child suffers because you can hold your lover every night, you can kiss them, hug them, or hold their hand whenever you want and you take that for granted,
when your child can only hear their loves voice while you're asleep, or see them through screens for minimal hours.
your child is in love with someone they've never had *** with, so how can you say that it's based purely off of lust?
two people devoting themselves to one another for a long period of time with no possible way of having ulterior motives
sounds way cuter than
you living your happy lives while your child thinks about someone day and night but may never meet them, they know they can never introduce you to them because you will shun them, turn them down.
that's just sick.
i guess this is kind of a rant but i've been thinking about this a lot, how parents aren't accepting of their childs happiness. it's horrible, because not everyone you meet over the internet is a ******* *******. of course, there are some, but that's life. **** it.