i don't mean to offend; but i dislike funerals people want to say a few nice words so they aren't plagued with guilt and they can confess to a corpse a corpse that can't smile, appreciate or be filled with profound joy cowards all of them to spare the truth when the person can't feel the pain to speak of love when the person cant share the same not even in death we are granted the truth some people at funerals should just stay mute,