It's all very exciting at first everything is new and fresh and surprising you learn everyday about them you go to new places share food try new things then you start to memorize you know what side of the bed they like how much milk they put in their cereal the emoticons they use when they text their ringtone when they call and you ignore it the thrill is gone and now you sit with take out in your lap watching the same tv show as you did yesterday and the day before there are no more surprises or new experiences you stop trying to learn about this person you used to gravitate towards you sit in bed and wonder if you really need them or if you just like **the routine