i. because I spend hours thinking of what would be "safe" to wear ii. because no matter how I dress, I'm still stuck with the fear of being attacked iii. because I'm taught the way I dress causes ****, not rapists iv. because I get told I have no self respect when I wear "revealing" clothing v. because I'm taught to hold keys between my fingers when I walk alone vi. because I'm tired of people telling me "I'm asking for it"