step one: mark out your territory, bordered by sea surf on the one side and beach towels on the other; dig a moat to the left and right so no one can intrude upon your Fortress of Solitude. step two: build a sandcastle. ignore the imminent tides and the omnipresent ravages of gravity; they are irrelevant to your Dream of Isolation. step three: come to realize that you are not happy despite getting exactly what you wanted: welcome to the real world kiddo. I hope you found what you're Looking For.