Every year my family gathers around the kitchen table (boxed wine and chatter about distant binge-drinking aunts) When I was young my sister carved the turkey (swatted my hand when I reached for the carving knife. "I want to do it this year!") I am in her place at the kitchen table (boxed wine and chatter about the bruises on my knees) I will forever stand in the kitchen (no one swats my hand when I reach for the carving knife. "Maybe I'll do it this year.")