To me patience looks like this... It is this huge man will a long black overcoat with pockets with shiny glasses and Grey eyes and a face that is aged and a smile that looks between a frown and a smirk and a wooden smoke pipe in his mouth with raggedy bag rip jeans and black boots He sits on this wooden chair and is near a large tree and he lights his smoke pipe put one arm on top of one thigh leans over and stares with you with those ancient, deep eyes and says in a deep tone.. βgo head, speak I'm waitingβ but then this will also describe what understanding looks like So then they are both the same?....