No one likes ugly things and negativity- the clichè would follow "even though they are the reality of things" but I don't think ugliness is the reality of things. The reason people don't like hearing them is because they distract from the truth ugly things don't matter. They're not the truth. The truth is, there is only one thing that matters- love. Hatred, alcoholism, abandonment, addiction, depression, oppression, racism... Nothing matters, except love. And that is not an ugly truth. That is the truth, and the truth is beautiful.