it looks so easy on the TV, for people who are just starting. their bodies entwine and it's beautiful. Everything flows from it in it, and of it, and their souls seem to clasp together in an unbreakable embrace. Colors seem brighter sparks fly butterflies dance true-love-at-first-sight. They go on a date, two dates- it happens then. A few months and they are living together two years-and-they're-married. it happens so fast and too slow somehow, they learn to live with each other two people with complicated souls who are not alike at all, somehow, magically, kiss. it's hard for me to grasp- and I'm not sure I'd be able to, if I had the chance.