Realize this. Take it as wise advice to protect yourself. You're responsible for you and honestly no one else. When you grow.
Realize, a man will volunteer to love you. While your man at war. You're not his. You just a temporary award.
A man will love you. When your spouse is providing. What time you think he's not giving? There's always another man willing. Realize, you're not his. The lover just see himself as a fill in. He be gone when the problems comes.
A man will be the pawn in trading your worth. We see manipulation more in saints than many sinners. Who never picture themselves as winners?
But, as someone seeking to conquer over your true life lovers. That's why you see many knowing you're taken requesting for your number?