it does not matter if you're male or female in the mind of a abuser they will always prevail. when you allow the abuse from the start in you life, it becomes a part.
whether it's verbal or physical, it matters not you let it start, and it won't stop. the verbal can be more damaging than the physical because it becomes daily.
like a sculptor chipping away at its mold until it becomes the way that they want it to be. and if you don't stop it you will never be free.
they do it because of their own inadequacy. which is something that their mind won't see. how much abuse should you take before it becomes much to late?
the verbal abuser will always put you to the ground and expect you to not make a sound. they will tell you that you was put here to serve. and to make a move, you have no nerve.
that you must obey their every command and that you are the **** of the land. if you have no - or low self esteem it is something which will be seen.
and when an abuser has you in their sight no matter what you do, it won't be right. STOP the abuse, before it's too late. for this can not be your destined fate.
the verbal abuse will always start first then from there, it will get worse. YOU must walk away, so that they can see a victim you will not be.
(abuse is like a broken tool, it could damage whatever is good)