Men causes their own mistakes by the decision they make. And women just plays along.
We saw it with Abram,Sarai and Hagar. And the child is the one that suffer. While the "seedmaker" started it all.
Men walking around acting like Kings. Treating various women like they his Queen. While creating and creating to uplift themselves.
It's not that Papa was a rolling stone. He just was great at manipulation to have lovers playing along. To keep him seated at the throne.
Two guilty parties in a child's life. Which is where things begins to lead to a fight. The seedmaker and the plant debating over the tree.
Because that's what a child is to many men. Someone carrying on his legacy. Where misery is never consider in the mix? But places you'll find many men claiming most as theirs.