i still remember the first time. i was fourteen. things were starting to break. friends turning distant, the girls who used to carry me now looking the other way.
i grabbed a pair of kids’ scissors. they were blue. my cheeks were soaked with tears. i had never done this before, but i had heard about it.
i put the blade to my wrist. it hurt. a lot. but i did it again. and again.
we made up the next day. everything seemed okay again. but i didn’t stop. i liked the sting, going to school with it still burning.
blue scissors turned into pocket knives, kitchen knives, blades from pencil sharpeners. i cried when nothing came out.
and later, when my whole arm went numb, i didn’t stop. i think i liked that, too. i don’t know why.