Hopelessness is the most damaging addiction in the universe ...it has no cure ,no interdiction no laws against or legal restriction. No easy to see physical manifestations, often no outward signs of causing self - limitations.
Those who hide it best are often the ones.... ...needing someones help the most, but they can't ask others to help carry the load ..,
while those who write it in bright flashing neon on their face,, go from stepping just fine to having a limp when they come into another person's view, they spill their guts like a shamed Samurai doing Hara Kiri suicide , and makes it twice as hard... to see the signs of those in need...
...Those who are the best at locking it deep inside... ....until that time you hear yourself saying ...What!! "wait ...WAIT! they did what? When ...? Where? *** I never ...saw ... any..."