i was short the cash needed for next semesters tuition
i was outta options so i swallowed my pride and called my father
i had’nt seen him for a least eight years i was busy nursing sweet regrets extending a prolonged illness of resent
Halloween 1977 i borrowed my girlfriends VW and drove down to Union to reunite with Dad
his secretary ushered me into his C Level office and I was struck by the angelic portrait of my half sister adorning the space above his head
we shook hands and i sat on a chair in front of his desk. it was an awkward moment of small talk, relieved by the passing of a $400 check into my just stewardship
my father suggested we head to lunch where we would break bread together for the first time in years
it would also present opportunities to swallow the misgiven years with draughts of gin and tonics
by this time my father was a professional drinking champion, quaffing down the ***** to drown his own considerable misgivings
as a young virile turk meeting with his father for the first time in years, i was determined to match his skill mano a mano
it was a foolhardy endeavor but my intrepidness was unfazed as i matched round for round proclaiming my arrival into manhood
leaving the restaurant my father suggested we resume our drinking at a local dive
there the velocity of rounds accelerated the drinking spinning faster than the emotions swimming around my head
but I was determined to prove my manhood standing toe to toe with my lost father proving i was his equal in the endeavors of men
don’t remember how many rounds we downed but it was a considerable amount of ***** consumed
next we headed to his friends pizza parlor where he could present his long lost son
we spoke of my wonderful girlfriend, and my father suggested i go get her so we could all meet
he flipped me the keys to his company car a brand new Ford LTD Wagon
man I was riding high styling, livin life large rolling up the GSP headin to Montvale to fetch my princess in a royal carriage
when i got to her house my girlfriend and her mother expressed concerns about my condition
i suavely made the case that i was ok to make the 40 mile trek to meet back up with my father
it was after all a special occasion an opportunity to present my girl to my newly found dad
so off we went back to Union the drive was going well best as i can remember; though my girlfriend was uneasy as i swerved down the parkway
in East Orange the traffic got heavy we were in the flow following a station wagon filled with kids
my eyelids were getting heavy and I clipped the railroad tie median barrier with the cars rear end
the wagon went into a wobbling swerve i fought to control but could not
i remember my last words in my head “Jesus save us” and fell onto the lap of my girl
the crash, the spin the resounding din thundered into my last bit of consciousness like a tragic Stravinsky lullaby screaming me to sleep
my aching head blinked awake in a dim lit hospital in the wee hours of All Saints Day
unsure where I was but realizing why i was there I ardently questioned a dismissive nurse if any children were hurt and where my girlfriend had gone
she adamantly refused to answer my urgent fear filled questions; stating I had been asking these same questions all night
thinking about the children playing in the back of the car and my missing girlfriend filled me with a shocking dread, a trembling terror of what my drinking hath wrought
Halloween 1977 was a night filled with frightening realizations of unresolved unanswered questions
it would be another three decades before i commenced a search to answer these frightening questions in earnest