the gift of insecurities is a crime to humanity symptom's cover you from head to toe... like an infectious disease..... the only know cure ...... is to belittle and then infect the one you adore .... and then leave them ..... alone and hollow...... from time to time be kind to them when they start to feel better then pull the rug . kick them in the face .... laugh and leave again...... worked on me....... i got so many ...... problem is i cant treat anybody like that ........ if youre getting it....... just remember trying to forbid the things they do. will reflect on you .... and they will do it anyway.. . the harder you try. to stop them the more they will say it was cause you pushed them to do it. sorry . the only thing you can do is walk away ....... and love yourself because they wont...... you deserve better ..... love yourself hope this helps someone i just really really really do. i love you ..you should too.