I haven't been called a spinster but I can tell what people are thinking when I walk by myself. Or when I am at church with my mom then I get weird looks because I am 24 years old and single. So yeah you can call me a spinster because it is accurate. But I am good alone. I don't need a relationship to define me. All of my friends are married and have kids or are in a relationship. Sometimes I feel lonely because I don't have someone but when I am with my family or work friends I don't feel alone.