Too many hold a grudge or end up mad at one another Intense awkward silence instead of making things right One will apologies while the other holds a grudge Using this as a power struggle to feel superior Too old to be mad with family It's easier to forgive than divide up the family Extra tired why carry that burden the guilt destroys all I wish people would talk things out Take time to listen understand instead of being selfish Everyone likes to criticize others But can't handle it when placed in the hot seat