I've lusted after countless women after my ex. Often gave myself a magical thinking high.
Oh how I can be whisked away by the perfect girl.
Truth is perfect people don't exist. Some people can leave you more scarred than you originally thought. While others aren't even capable of what you're in need of.
We have to be careful not project our needs onto others. Chances are they can't fulfill those needs.
You're in control of what you need. Getting what you want takes patience. It's about finding someone that gives you a mutual reciprocation.
Anything else is just called magical thinking. A mirage.
Choose to live in reality, chances are it's much better than you're fantasy.