77 years ago, I was born into this world having but one sibling, a brother three years my senior and perhaps not all that happy to greet me.
As sometimes happens, for most of our parallel lives resentment and derision seemed to rule our relationship. We appeared to have nothing in common but say for decent, loving parents and place of mutual residence. Arguing, fighting the norm of our shared existence.
Not an uncommon state of affairs in many families for all the normal sibling rivalry psychological reasons.
As we have aged and matured it is only in the last few years that most pleasantly, we've discovered how truly much alike we are and how much we always had in common. That we are brothers in every sense of the word. Spending hours each week on the phone and computer gleefully unearthing and exploring those many similarities and memories.
Finally living an actual for real Bromance, a long time in the making. And most assuredly rewarding.
No one else shares our childhood and family memories like our brother or sister, as we age, it's a true Treasure Tove of remembering better when shared by two. If you have a sib, and old bitter feelings keep you apart, reach out you may discover what we have found, it is never too late to start over.