You're hurting. You have been abused, mistreated, and used. Let no one advise to hold back the truth. Tell it. It will make you feel so much better.
The house of worship gives twisted truth. And this like a lawyer should be the place trying to rightly advise you. But many are afraid of the controversy to come.
But, tell him. Or this pain will destroy you.
Tell it, release your pain. I will be the first to say it will extremely be good news.