Pretend to be crazy so you can get away with doing what's right.
Remove yourself from situations where you have trouble being and feeling your true self.
Decrease your connection with anything that tends to demean your spirit, shrink your lust for life , limit your freedom, ignore your soul, compromise your integrity, inhibit your self-expressiveness.
Love your enemies in case your friends turn out to be jerks.
Whoever you're longing for has been changed by your pursuit of them. They are different from what they were when you felt the first pangs of desire.
To make them yours, then, you'll have to modify your ideas about them.
Be careful what you wish for because if your wish does materialize, it will require you to change in ways you didn't foresee.
Give yourself another chance, pretend your wounds are exotic tatoos. Jon York 2022