You took a step forward, you're closer to your goal, such a crucial act. Oh, yeah, you acted. How dare you act? Didn't they teach you this in already? Did your parents raise an idiot? It's fine to have dreams BUT... If they're too individual, get on society's nerves "you should keep them to yourself" and "don't even think about it", "do something else, like this... and that..." "you should take some steps back."