most of us aren't in love we're in lust or like or crushing or swooning or "in the honeymoon stage" we're infatuated, "in love with the idea of love" ...lonely... it seems silly really that love, true love, real love the kind that isn't a feeling in the morning that changes with your mood is so rare, almost unattainable like the infinitesimally small atom resting at the very tip of a needle but we still hope us non-lovers i mean. we strive like gatsby for that green light we want to be (in) love(d)
we go about it different ways-- through crushes and infatuations and "s(he)'s hot" 's but all us non-lovers we're trying to love