A lot of English speakers today Have difficulty with "lie" and "lay." When we are talking about reclining, "Lie" is the word that we're defining. Your English teacher might give you a frown If you say, "I am going to lay down." "I'm going to LIE down" is what it should be. "Lay" requires an object, you see. Confused, people often ask why "Lay" has to be the past tense of "lie." That is partly what makes us confused And also explains why the words are misused. "All day last Monday I LAY in my bed." But people will slip and say "laid" instead. Remember, the past tense of "lay" is "laid": "I LAID my coat on the bench in the shade." Silly example I know; I'm just trying To make a point. And NO, I'm not lying. Now when you are using "lying" and "laying," The same rules apply. Do you hear what I'm saying? "She's LYING on top of the quilt right now." "We're LAYING our coats on the bed." Somehow, With just a little effort we'll get it, And it won't confuse you if you don't let it.