Eventually a child will realize That if they play the victim, they will be victimized. It's sad to say they may take the abuser's side When they have no confidant in which to confide.
Still, the child is blamed without a second thought. There's no one there to listen or any help to be sought. They are on their own now, cast aside, left to rot. This happens right under our noses, whether we like it or not.