Do not get overwhelmed If you get overwhelmed you cry 2.dont cry infront of them They will think your weak 3. Learn to fake smile They don't care about your real emotions 4. Don't vent to anyone Our family is perfect 5. Never allow someone to think less Defend us at all costs except our name 6. If u lie don't get caught We all have to at some point be smart 7. Never answer questions straight forward We aren't to be open books 8. Children are seen But never heard 9. If you brake any rules You are no longer family we are exclusive