there's a difference between loving and being in love.
i was in love with him. dancing in the space between our minds we didn't talk about meaningful things we were willing fools until the very end and even after that.
being in love is being a fool and throwing yourself into the other person like jumping off a cliff.
being in love is to dream every day of kissing them, of holding them finally.
i am not in love anymore. now i have my friends, my chosen family. i love them and it is a choice the best one i have made so far.