It's kind of funny.** I think of myself as a very open person, yet I can't remember the last time I let someone in. I always think I'm going to be strong enough, but my heart gets in the way of my words--or maybe it's my mind. Because there's never a right time to tell someone you're breaking down, there's not a perfect moment to explain how you hate yourself and everyone around you. Because when someone's happy, it would be cruel to take that away from them--you couldn't possibly be so selfish when you know the struggle for the smile they're wearing. But when the same person is sad, it's not your place to bring yet another problem into their life; you have no right.
So when will you ever find that millisecond to say that you need help--will you ever? Will you just breakdown in between bites of cereal on a Wednesday morning? Or will the truth spill out during the ten minute drive to the grocery store? You try so hard to be strong and happy because nobody has time to fix you, so you learn to fix yourself. And maybe you don't ever really get it; maybe you'll never love the shape of your nose or the extra fat on your arms. But, despite all of this, you'll learn to love every happy person you meet-- be it with tears in your eyes sometimes.
You can't fix yourself because we aren't intended to become something different.
You improve yourself, you continue on, and you learn.
Everyday isn't going to be a good day, but it is someone else's best day-- and isn't that something to celebrate?