When you love someone
You love them dead or alive
Birthdays are still birthdays
And anniversaries are still
On the same day
Nothing changes
The sun rises and sets eventually
Day after day
You smile at them dead or alive
You laugh
You cry  

If you do not love someone
You don't love them  dead or alive
Birthdays are not birthdays
And anniversaries are never remembered
Everything is the same
The sun rises and sets eventually
Day after day
You do not smile at them dead or alive
You never laugh
You don't cry

Bodiless love
and  
Loveless bodies