The śiṣya woman said you need to grow in the right environment it frees your mind to think and I remember how my father worked all his life to feed house guide and loved his family how he was never indulgent in anything wrong or unjust how he never disappoint and was always polite, kind and helpful and how in his ways we found security and safety we in his light freed our minds to think and we all thought this was a man we want to be like a man we want to make proud of us a man that deserves to have worthy capable children he did not hold us to ransom he mere helped free our minds to think so in thinking I learnt not to expect others to think like me for not everybody have freed minds nor the right environment to grow and free their minds a lot of people are incapable of thinking that is so obvious