Now you see, just hold on a minute there I can’t- for the sake of hearing people- say I love shooting my ears out, bleeding myself deaf. I don’t but I am deaf. I can’t- for the sake of heterosexuality norms- say I love feelings boiling to the surface for girls and boys. I don’t but I am queer. I can’t- for the sake of masculinity- say I love good eye for fashion, rather than football. I don’t but I am genderless. Did the lightbulb flash above your head, ******* therapist