Only remembering things that have not yet happened
I nail the dream of you to the back of my mind
until the memory of you bleeds & bleeds &
pleads with me to un-dream you.
Your kiss is a shadow tortured with sunlight.
Your touch is a page torn out & thrown away.
Your absence is a hate I create & re-create
to torment a mind
that only remembers things that can never happen.
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Me dealing with( or not dealing with)a friend's suicide...I was amazed at the intense sadness and immense anger released in me and the poem reflects both those conflicting emotions. The anger I had not expected to feel...it was anger at the circumstances that brought her to this point and anger for her depriving us of her presence. Her absence was like a paper cut to the soul...sheer animal grief. I guess we all cry for ourselves as well as the person who has left us forever and left us stranded in the here of this now.