People leave shadows of themselves where ever they go, where ever they've been in your life. Sometimes it's a bad presence you have to clean. Sometimes it's a good presence you want to keep. The good is pleasant to treasure where ever you go. The bad is a bad you need to sever so you can go. For some people there's a lot of happiness for others a lot of grief, even between children of the same family. What you had they'll want to ignore so don't go about measuring yourself by that penciled height chart on the door. Never measure yourself in anyway by them, because all those sisters or brothers you had never woke up in your skin.