Love is not dependency. Love is not some broken-hearted teen crying, "You were the only thing that ever completed me," in the middle of the street during a full moon in which all the willows weep or whatever.
Whatever love is, it's surely not that.
Love is not a scam.
Love is not crying when you could've laughed.
In fact, love is the exact opposite of that.
Three words that will never be heard by any love-sick poet: Get over it.