As Men we are constantly judged on our strength the more a man bares upon his shoulders the stronger he is so as men we put as much on our shoulders until we can no longer put any more we struggle to carry this load and the more we struggle the stronger we become but again as men struggle is looked at as a weakness so the strength of the struggle then is not apparent until our shoulders are left bare and then there are many men who put no load upon their shoulders so they do not struggle they shed that weight a little too early and yet they think themselves strong amongst those who struggle because do you not walk faster with no load upon your shoulders putting those who are stronger further behind all this is to tell you that you cant judge a man's strength based on the load he carries, how far he has walked, or how fast he got there. There is know way for you to know how strong I really am.